Once we have decided to have drama around your journey in life. You need to play the drama well.
Every person in relation, expects attention time to be spent. That is the basic need of people. They wanted to be cared by someone who they care for.
We like to be doing all work and being busy. But that might not be the right thing to do. Having a defined time. Commited time to work. Will lead to having time to spend with people whom you like to be with.
There must be a time to spend for other than work things. So keep the promises made for family members. To be on time. What ever you say, simply commit to that.
One of my friend said, family harmony is the foundation. Only when it is solid, you can dance. You can do what you like to do.